Tag archive for ‘girlfriend’
So to me this is a no brainer if you are currently in a relationship or you plan on getting seriously involved with someone, and your partner has a problem with you having or being friends with the opposite sex it is very obvious you are committing to the wrong person or that someone just simply is not for you. When we are younger and began to date it is only natural to feel that instant jealous, insecure and being overly territorial of are crush or boyfriend/ Girlfriend talking to the opposite sex only because we feel as though there could be possible competition or the possibility of are crush liking someone else. In other words when you are young you are unable to see the bigger picture of life and looking beyond what the eye see’s. I know that I have defiantly been guilty of this act numerous of times I used to feel like “I am all my man needs so why does he need the companionship of other women”. I did not realize or even care at the moment that these women he called friends had been in his life years before I had even met him and they had been the ones holding him down long before I came along. At the time I just knew that I was extremely jealous that the man I was dating had multiple female friends even though they were never romantically involved, and they were just friends he grew up with I couldn’t help but get the images in my mind of them doing something else ,or boo loving on the phone when I wasn’t around, The games our minds play on us, I know I was going crazy just thinking of the what ifs, and should of, could of, and would of’s.I know that in a relationship trust is a very important factor, and you should be able to trust your spouse when they are out of your site. Freindships are one of the most powerful influences in our lifes and to some extent they can shape and mold your character because of the influence they have on you. Some would say that having friends of the opposite sex is a disater waiting to happen, but I say it depends on your partner and the type of relationship the two of you share. All I can say is communication is key and if you dont trust your partner you shouldnt be with them.
Tagged as aggrements, boyfriend, disaggrements, frienemies, girlfriend, happy, In the Company of Good Friends Webseries, Just friends, love, Marriage, men, Sex, understanding, women
Categorized as Blog Topics, What Do You Think
“When I found her she was a regular girl. I helped place her with the right people, get her teeth cleaned, her body toned up. Everything changed and now everyone wants a piece of her.”
Who in the hell left the gate open?! If your man said this about you what would you do? I’d slap the shit out of him but that’s just me. Tyson Beckford said this in regards to his current girl. Even though Beyonce had the world wanting to upgrade their partner I honestly don’t think she meant disrespecting the one you are with just to make yourself look good. I mean really Tyson? Is that how you feel? Who are you baby boy? When was the last time you modeled? What have you even done lately? How are you even relevant anymore? If you thought admitting this about your girl like you were her savior a great idea then you are stupid and obviously she was fine with it because she just smiles and stand by her man like a dim-witted lamp post.
A woman should never be this disrespected by her man. If I were her I’d look at it like, “Damn so I was a charity case is that what you are saying? A project you felt compelled to conquer and floss around?” He has minimized her worth in that one confession. He has crossed a serious line. Is it right to publicly announce or brag about the things you’ve done to upgrade your partner? That person’s improvements should speak for itself when they step into a room. To me it’s a blatant sign of ownership if you think about it. If this chick in any way gets a big head or wants to bounce he will hold all of this over her head and she being ‘in love’ will cower before him and stay. Drastic? Don’t think so, I just call it how I see it.
Remember awhile back when Gabrielle Union admitted that Dwayne Wade tells her that her tracks are showing before they go out? Would this be considered disrespectful too? I think I could handle that one; that’s like someone telling you a booger is in your nose or there is food in between your teeth. That’s looking out for a person and preventing them from being embarrassed. Tyson, you need to go buy a clue and apologize to your girl for putting her ‘fixer uppers’ on blast. She on the other hand needs to say tootles to the fake Tyrese look alike and upgrade to a better man!
Peace and luv!
- Tyson Beckford On Model Girlfriend: “I Created Her” (hellobeautiful.com)
- D**k Head of the Day: Model Tyson Beckford (madnewsuk.com)
- Tyson Beckford Has A Nasty Case of the “Egos” and Nene Is Making the Most of Her 15 Minutes (wegotkidz.com)
- Supermodel Tyson Beckford: World’s Worst Boyfriend (thegloss.com)
- Tyson Beckford Talks to London’s Evening Standard, Proves Why Some Beautiful Men Should Just Stay Silent (clutchmagonline.com)
Tagged as apologize, confused, Dwayne Wade, fake Tyrese, girl, girlfriend, Grabirelle Union, improvement, low self esteem, manipulate, model, ownership, people, relevant, savior, teeth clean, toned, tracks, Tyson Beckford, upgrade, worth
Categorized as Blog Topics, Gossip & Entertainment News
That is a stupid question I know however I seriously think that a lot, not just some, have gotten too comfortable to the point where they don’t see it anymore. Recently there have been several blatant situations that have disturbed me. From slave questions being given to students on tests, to teachers using slavery as examples for kids to work out on the chalkboard in front of the class that had nothing to do with what they were studying to this sad, sad story.
Three white Chicago teens have been arrested for luring a black classmate to a home and putting a noose around his neck with the intention to kill him. All of this was because they did not want this black boy to date a white girl which happened to be one of the attacker’s cousin. This incident happened two days before Christmas however the victim’s parents did not call in the attack until Christmas Eve. During the whole encounter the boys called him the ‘n’ word repeatedly and threatened him with a knife. All of them attended or did attend Brother Rice high school.
The school’s administration is dumbfounded by what has happened and says,
“It’s disturbing just by the very nature of the alleged crime. It’s not what Brother Rice is about, it’s not what we stand for, and it’s not what we represent.”
Somebody has to say this but obviously these teenagers learned this hateful behavior at home – period! I wanna know where the parents were while this was going down? And if they were around would they have participated in the hate crime or at least condoned it? Can you imagine your child coming to you with this? I know I would be murderous mad! All of this went down in Chi town. Last time I checked wasn’t Chicago mostly black occupied? So these boys should be used to seeing interracial dating. This is just disgusting and disappointing.
One of the attackers, eighteen year old Matthew Herrmann, will be charged as an adult. That victim will be scared for a long time. How do you bounce back from something like that? I wonder how the girlfriend feels.
Peace and luv!
Tagged as arrested, attackers, behavior, Brother Rice high school, Chicago, Christmas, girlfriend, Hate crime, knife, Matthew Herrmann, noose, parents, racism, Slavery, slaves, students, teens, victim, white
Categorized as Blog Topics, Empowerment Issues & Politics