Tag archive for ‘fight’
We’ve all had it happen, we’re in a relationship and everybody under the moon tries to get at you and then you start to question if that other person is the one. Sometimes we act on it and once your ex is gone that is when you realize how good you had it. I’m thinking Chris Brown may be regreting ending the relationship with Karrueche Tran.
Although I still have trepidation over the Rihanna/Chris Brown fight years ago but I think this reunion was a huge mistake and I think he realizes it too. Lately Breezy and his ex-boo thang have been getting quite close.
If I had to choose I think Karrueche is better for the explosive Chris. She is the total opposite, laid back and drama-free. They say opposites attract and if the rumors are true about Rihanna being an alcoholic and doing extracurricular activities then Chris stay with the ex. And Ri-Ri, get it together! What do you think?
Peace and luv!
Posted from none other than your favorite writer’s favorite writer Ms Talia
So I was wandering around the web looking for an interesting subject to bring to y’all today, when I stumbled acrossed a video of these girls beatin this dudes ASS! I wouldn’t normally get on this level with my reporting but I had to because these girls actually responded in the right way.Whoop That Trick! http://cdn.mediatakeout.com/62711/shock-video-dude-gets-confronted-by-his-girlfriend-and-his-jumpoff-and-they-team-up-to-brutally-beat-his-azz-warning-graphic-violence.html
The guy was cheating on them with one another. When they found out about his cheating ways they confronted him. Once the confrontation was going down and they didn’t like his answers both of them commenced to givin him a good ole fashioned butt whoopin. That’s what’s up! I know all you “normal” people out there would say “What?”,”NOOOO!” (in my best Kevin Hart voice), and “Just walk away…it’s his loss.” But just give me a minute to explain my standpoint and open your minds.
How many times did you in your youth; or have you heard of someone that you know getting into a knock down drag out with some other chick their man was cheatin with. Beefin with the other woman is not the way to go…it takes away from our sisterhood as women. All too often young women step out of their lady shoes, pull off their hoops, and lube up with Vaseline, makin an absolute spectacle of themselves, to fight for their love. But in all actuality they’re not fighting for their love they are fighting because of their love. The dude gets off with just a good fussin at; while he stands there on the sideline laughing at the chicks fighting over him,like he’s the man, all the while knowing that (most of the time) he’s got two more girls on the other side of town.
Countless numbers of women have suffered from trauma of being cheated on. And although we get over it in time; regardless of how hard we try to carry on with that particular relationship, it’s really over. Once the trust is gone the relationship is gone. The effects of that initial heartbreak also carries on into your future relationships because you form a mistrust of men. We’ve all heard the songs with the scenario of “making the new man suffer for the last man’s mistakes.” This many times is true. And when it happens over again a woman becomes scarred and irreparable.
Another issue that often occurs is “jumpin”. Now this happened to me a couple of times. This scenario is really tough because once jumped by a good of girls the victim they all become your enemies. So instead of having beef with one female you now have beefs several females. Which takes it to a whole other level. It then becomes an interpersonal relationship issue for the community and sometimes even goes into a legal aspect. A lot of younger women catch cases all due to fightin over a no good boyfriend who cheats. And don’t even get me started on those women who snap and really hurt or kill their lovers or their other woman…that’s whole nother story!
I’m not encouraging domestic violence, but my point is instead of deflecting the anger on someone that is just as hurt as you are; why not put that pain on the one that’s doing the hurtin. He’s a male they all need a good ole fashioned whoopin every once in a while just to keep him in line.
SO ladies join together and “whoop that trick”!
Tagged as affair, cheater, domestic homicide, Domestic Violence, fight, fighting, fights, ghetto, men that cheat, whoop that trick, whoopins, womens issues
Categorized as Blog Topics, Dating & Relationships, Blog Topics, Empowerment Issues & Politics, Blog Topics, What Do You Think
Love will make a person do some crazy shit – stalking, cutting tires, poisoning the ex, or straight jumping on your soon to be ex-husband in his bedroom with the small boys watching in shock. Pilar knows what I’m talking about. This grown ass woman storms into the bedroom they use to share, with her fam, and starts punching and biting Deion. The reason? Cause Deion was spotted on the red carpet with Tracey Edmonds over the weekend (you know, Babyface’s ex).
If Pilar is so set on getting Deion to change his mind about the divorce someone needs to let her know this isn’t the way to do it! Can you imagine this petite heifa runnin up on a man twice her itty bitty size? Needless to say Deion is not taking this lying down (hehe). He called the po-po hoes and had her arrested right on the spot! On her mugshot Pilar has this ‘yeah muthafucka I did it and what?!’ smirk on her face.
I smell divorce, mansion and full custody for Deion.
To Pilar I get it, truly I do but you are a grown ass woman! That means you are old enough to know right from wrong, you should have the wisdom by now to not act like a hot mess. I’ve been there where I wanted to do some grimy shit to someone but I left it as a thought. My grandma would come back from the dead, smack the mess out of me and say that I’m embarrassing her and she did not raise me to be a thirsty, trife heifa!
Now where is she going to go? I know he’s not going to let her chill up in that spot now because of this. Just fall back Pilar and leave with the little dignity you have left.
I wanna know have you done anything foolish toward your man/girl? Slash tires, picked a fight with the nu-nu girl, what? Let me know, I promise I won’t tell.
Peace and luv!
Tagged as arrested, beating, Bedroom, Deion Sanders, dignity, divorce, embarrass, fam, fight, jail, mess, Pilar, police, sons, stalking, wisdom, woman
Categorized as Blog Topics, Gossip & Entertainment News
I don’t have to explain how ridiculous the majority of these ‘reality’ shows are. Ridiculous is the nicest word I could come up with and if you know me personally you know I never hold my tongue but I think I’ve become exhausted with the whole reality show antics. Others are getting tired too. The one thing that cracks me up is all of the reality stars say the same thing as soon as they are perceived in any way other than innocent, ‘they edited it to make me look like a fool, a whore, a bitch or all of the above!’
Yeah right…and I’m a virgin with 2 kids. We don’t believe you!
Reality shows have been around since Real World decades ago started. It’s not like it was back then. Every channel damn near has at least one of these shows so unless they were living under a rock they should have known ahead of time how it would be. It is fueled by controversy, backstabbing and drama. Tami from Basketball Wives happened to have been around back when MTV was the originator of ‘reality tv’. I would say she should have known better because this is her second go round with reality tv but The Real World was before MTV became media whores.
Little Ms AngryPants disclosed a few things about some of her co-stars, the producers and editing team for VH-1. She said the fight between her and Kesha in the country store didn’t even show the real reason for the spat. It supposedly made Kesha look as tho she was the victim in all of this but really she had been talking out the side of her neck the whole time. Tami calls out the editors of the show and says she will pay them double what Kesha is paying them to make her look innocent.
I wonder do they get to see the finished product before it’s aired? Some shows do, so I’ve heard (uh-um, the Kardashians). Maybe she will hop out of the franchise after this season who knows. Should Tami get penalized for sort of snitching? I mean you make a deal with the devil then a couple of seasons later you regret it. Out of all this which one is never portrayed as the angry black woman? Yep, Shaunie. Of course it has to be because she’s one of the producers. How convenient. Anyway Tami, you better be careful with what you say or you might be losing a friendship over writing on a blog like Jennifer did to Ev you might lose this job before you decide to walk out with your dignity in-tacked.
Peace and luv!
- SMH: Tami Roman Set-Trippin’ On “Basketball Wives” Vacation AGAIN!!! (bossip.com)
- ‘Basketball Wives’ Star Tami Roman Edited to Look like Angry Black Woman (celebs.gather.com)
Tagged as backstabbing, Basketball Wives, blog, drama, edited, Evelyn, exhausted, fake, fight, Jennifer, Kardashians, Kesha, kids, media whores, MTV, producers, reality tv, Shaunie, Tami Roman, The Real World, VH-1, victim
Categorized as Blog Topics, Gossip & Entertainment News
Toure is pretty much known for voicing his opinion especially when it comes to the black community. I’m not sure if that is a good thing or not. Every time I hear anything from him all I can do is shake my head. Everyone has a right to their own opinion but how much time after that person say something do you have to wait before you can curse them out for saying stupid shit?
A lot of people really do need to have their phones taken away or any device that will allow them to hop on a social media network especially if they have enough clout that people will notice what they say immediately and share or retweet it. We all know about the Trayvon Martin case, you are affected by it in one way or another. Toure took to Twitter and said some…well you read and tell me if it was insensitive:
“You’re Zimmering me = You’re killing me.”
Was it a big deal to you? I haven’t marinated on it enough so I wanna know what you think about the tweet? So many people have complained about his comment he eventually apologized, sort of. “Fine. It was a bad joke. Obviously not meant to be heartless. Days and days of intellectual discourse re Trayvon went over some heads I see. My position on Trayvon has been clear for days. I shouldn’t have attacked his murderer with a facetious attempt at dark humor.”
Will someone shut this brotha up and guide him back to where his common sense was last seen? Do he have a PR person? If he does I suggest he fire him/her asap. He is a father for Christ’s sake, how would he feel if he was in Trayvon’s parents’ place and someone joked about it? Guarantee he would be shitty. He has clearly forgotten how to be empathetic to sad situations. Uncle Tom or a realist? Definitely Uncle Tom!
Let me hit you with another one. Half creator of DefJam, turned fashion designer, turned author, turned vegan and philanthropist Russell Simmons also had this message to say to black people. He let blacks know that we should not start a race war over Trayvon’s murder. As much as people are calling him an Uncle Tom I have to agree with him. Think about it, what happens when we have something in groups? We fight. Small things not remotely important enough to fight over will send us over the edge. Don’t act like you don’t know what I am talking about. For Trayvon we cannot fail him by fighting the same way G. Zimmerman did. Yeah, yeah an eye for an eye but why run the risk of killing more innocent people in the process of dishing out revenge? At the end of the day we may feel satisfied with putting justice into our own hands but we will not have solved the problem. They already view up as violent why prove them right? I’m putting the realist label on Russell.
We need to stand our ground, approach and create a game plan just as diligent and passionate as we have in putting together these marches and sites/blogs. And we also need to stop killing each other. we can’t solve the violence aimed at us from other races if we can’t stop the violent behavior we have toward each other. Can I get an Amen?!
Hopefully enough of you have taken those fantasy glasses off so we can make some changes in our communities across the board. We need to be the change we want our community to be.
Peace and luv!
Tagged as behavior, black community, black people, blogs, change, clout, curse, fight, G. Zimmerman, insensitive, marches, opinion, passionate, philanthropist, problem, race war, realist, Russell Simmons, sad, sites, social media networks, Toure, Trayvon Martin, Twitter, Uncle Tom, vegan, violent
Categorized as Blog Topics, Empowerment Issues & Politics