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When you enter into new relationships; they seem so fun, so new, sooooooo SPARKLY. You know that stage where people hate to be around the both of you at the same time. It is just so sicking. With some that sparkle never leaves while other seem to lose a little bit of the luster. How do you get back the sparkle. I know I have said to myself “I never want to fall out of like with him.” We have to find ways to keep things interesting. I think we all get stuck in a routine and forget about the things that keep us together. I know it happens because I was stuck in the one spot before. IT takes 2 people to change it. We are in this together.
As always I took my Facebook page to see what everyone thought;
Charles Kelly: Great question. i say introduce them to the LS. a lil variety just might help get that spark back.
Tagged as authoress perri forrest, charles kelly, Facebook, happy, healthy relationships, jerome givens, love, mingle, Relationships, Single, Sparkle, sparks, UIM, valorie rice
Categorized as Blog Topics, Dating & Relationships, Blog Topics, Single and Ready to Mingle, Blog Topics, What Do You Think
Sex, Sex, Sex! Oh how I love the way his dick hardens at the site of my wetness. How many of you ladies can testify to this statement? It seems like sex is overrated these days. The talk on the streets that brings the heat between the sheets! Simulations bringing rejuvenating mind revelations.
How much sex is too much? Well this is a very important question. Some people love it just like an addiction, but four, fix, six times a day! Empowerment over the mind, body and soul is very important. We want to feed our bodies more than our mind, so the cravings people have in a sexual manner gets overrated and overplayed. There is nothing wrong with having lots of sex, when “too” much sex gets the best of relationships, the mind is only craving the sex and the relationship gets lost. When you are dating, it’s important to keep in mind that you shouldn’t have sex with “every” single guy/lady because as soon as feelings starts to become attach, you will start feeling “sexually and emotionally” depressed and it makes you feel a certain way. There is nothing wrong with pleasing the body and mind once in awhile, but learn to take control of your decisions.
“But damn! Brotha is fine and it’s been over six months. In need of some good vibing” LOL And s this maybe true, but lust is very powerful, while love is a hard thing to find. Anyone can have sex and quickly catch some type of feeling (if he or she isn’t ur boyfriend/girlfriend) whereas love is a foundation that has to be rooted and bonded and brought in the right manner.
How do handle certain situations where our partner or the person you are dating wants sex all the time, but you don’t? You are perfectly okay with the regular sex twice a week type deal. People with high sex drives tend to care for sex a lot more and their cravings become more stronger when dating. Good sex is good when both partners are digging each other in the bedroom and role play maybe by making the sex very interesting.
Whether it’s too much sex or “too little” sex, make it enjoyable for you and your partner. Just don’t let sex rule your relationship!
I asked a few people the same question “How Much Sex is too much sex” and here is what they had to say:
“When one or both partners start bleeding… Heal up for a day and get back to it”
“See sex is a way to express love…i feel if love is true then it must not have any limit…”
“There is nothing better than to give and receive pleasure whenever we desire each other. It is fantastic…no limit, never too much. Creativity is a must, and be in tune with what each other’s likes are in all aspects.”
“U said “too much sex” I never knew there was such a thing. I’ve been in relationships where there wasn’t enough sex but never experienced too much! I must say I would like to experience that!”
Peace and Blessings!
Happy Shoe Tuesday my CurvyLites!!!!!! I hope you have had an awesome day so far. You all know I live for this day to come so that you can get a glimpse into my closet and my addictions. Today’s pick come from a fan. I love get ting fan mail. Its allows me to interact with you all and receive the love you all have for what I do. I am so thankful and humbled by every piece that I receive.
I absolutely love these boot and they are right on time for fall. I chatted with the owner of these shoes and you will not believe where she got them…. ((((WAIT FOR IT)))) AVON!!!!! Yes you read that right AVON…They only cost her 18.99. Now you all know I love a great bargain; and 18.99 spoke to my heart. You sure don’t have to spend your mortgage on shoes to have something cute or fly. Now don’t get me wrong I have bought a pair of shoes for 100.00 or more. Wait as I think about those shoes they were on sale, marked down on top of the sale and I ended up using a gift card for them. I only ended up paying 35.00 for them. So yeah they are worth 100.00 but I didn’t spend that (((LOL))).
I would surely pair these with some skinny jeans and nice sweated or even a basic top with a leather bomber coat. I could also see these with a brown wrap dress for a night out with the girls for drinks.. So you see these can go from day to night in just one change…
IF you want to share your pick for shoe Tuesday email me at email@example.com.. I would love you hear from you, Make sure you add where you go them from and how much you paid.
Every time I turn you on you bring me joy. Why is it that you seem to bring “HIM” back to my mind. I remember when we first met. He was everything that I wanted and needed. It made me realize that I miss him more than anything. I know we are far apart right now but this song brings him back to me. He may not be here in the physical but he has taken over my mental completely. I can pinpoint the exact moment when I fell in love with him. When we broke up I felt a little lost. I felt as if I just lost my best friend. I am thankful for the friendship we have now. It is so amazing. But still when that song comes on I lose all control. Thank you Mr. Radio, for you tunes.
You Biggest Fan,
I know I am not the only one who feels this way when that song comes on the radio. It may not be the same song for every person. I fell like the DJ has personally stopped in my head and decided to play my playlist. For me it would be “I love you more everyday” by Ginuwine. When I sit and listen to the words of the song it reminds of loving him for all the right reasons, loving him for his ambition, loving him for his support. The fact of the matter that he is not in my life I want him to be, is saddens my heart just a little. Being single now is like why didn’t we fight for our love; why did we let it go so easily? I know I am guilty of comparing the last that to the one who is trying now. I know I am not the only one either. It is a really bad habit that is slowly breaking.
One the other side of that you have that song that is like “I am so glad you are gone”… Those are always oh so funny to me. I love you and hate you all at the same damn time. Songs like; “Bust your window out your car” by Jazmine Sullivan or “The Right One” by K. Michelle. Those women were doing damage in those songs, but there is a woman in the world feeling that right now.
I decided to ask my Facebook as always they sent me over. I asked “What song reminds you of him/her?”
Nigary Rma Thompson: A couple of Forevers by Chrisette Michelle
Lb Isthename:”You and I” by Avant and Keke Wyatt
Billy G Tyson: Latest Greatest Inspiration–Teddy P
Gibran Whitted”Stay with you” -John Legend
Wax Lauren: “Anytime”-Brian McKnight
Charles Kelly: Anthony Hamilton’s “Amazing”
All of those songs are amazing and provoke some good thoughts. Amazing how the words of a song can do that to you. Music surely does speak to the soul. I kow when I am writing I always have my head phones on. It is the only I can get lost in my work.
SO again Mr. Radio thank you for your tunes…
Tagged as anthony hamilton, avant, billy tyson, brian mcknight, charles kelly, chrisette michelle, ginumin, hate, jazmine sullivan, K. Michelle, keke wyatt, Lb isthename, love, mingle, mr. radio, Music, Nigary Thompson, relaionships, Single, Soul, wax lauren, writing
Categorized as Blog Topics, Single and Ready to Mingle, Blog Topics, What Do You Think
So I was told that you guys missed my 30 Minute Meals! I thought no body was payin me any attention…So I’m back! Please let me know if you like my recipes or comment and let me know if there is anything in particular you want to see. I need your feed back. Please! :}
Any way it’s fall and for me that means “Soup Season”. I feel like there is nothing more fulfilling than a warm pot of a good soup to soothe the chills from the brisk winds of fall! This week will be dedicated to some of my favorite soups. They may take longer than 30 minutes so make sure to leave yourself enough time to prepare these yummy soups for your family. I’m sure they will be very appreciative of your efforts as they sit down at the table to eat them.
3 (10 ounce) packages frozen chopped broccoli
3 (14.5 ounce) cans chicken broth
6 tablespoons margarine
1 onion, chopped
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
2 cups milk
1 1/2 pounds processed cheese food (eg. Velveeta), cubed
1 pinch ground white pepper
1. In a large pot over medium heat, simmer the broccoli in the broth for 15 minutes. In a separate skillet over medium heat, melt the butter or margarine, add the onions and saute for 5 minutes, or to desired tenderness.
2. Add the flour to the onions and stir well, forming a pasty substance. Gradually add the milk and stir until thick. Add this mixture to the broccoli mixture in the pot and stir well. Then add the cheese, stirring until melted. Finally, add the pepper. (Note: Be careful not to let the soup boil, or the cheese will break down.)
Serve with some warm dinner rolls and Bam! You have a warm comforting meal! Enjoy!
Tagged as 30 minute meals, broccoli cheese soup, easy broccoli cheese soup, fall time food, Quick Dinner, Quick Dinner Recipes, quick meals, soup
Categorized as Blog Topics, Food and Nutrition, Blog Topics, What Do You Think, Blog Topics, What You May Not Know