Archive for May 23rd, 2012
Say your 5 year old baby girl came to you out of the blue one day and said, “I should’ve been a boy!” What would be your response? Parents Jean and Stephen had to face that question from their 5 year old biologically born girl Kathryn. She also confessed that she knew she was supposed to be a boy since she was 2. For years Kathryn’s mama sat back and watched her wear the pants, play with the green soldiers and other boy activities however this was a different level of ‘tomboyness’ that she could not shake. When she told her husband about her concerns he reacted like any parent probably would with a loud ‘you trippin’. Finally one day they were in their car and Kathryn told him that she was going to tell him a story of a kid who was born in the wrong body. That of course caught his attention and damn near caused an accident.
Now what would you do?
They started to ‘accept’ their child’s revelation of being in the wrong body; they came to terms that their daughter Kathryn was now their son Tyler. Once school started they wrote letters to every parent explaining Tyler’s ‘situation’, on the application for school they put down male instead of female and even at swimming parks Tyler will rock swim trunks instead of bathing suits.
Ok I’m about to become all statistical on that ass for a minute so hold on. One of the criteria to figuring out if your child has gender disorder is that boys will think their penis is disgusting and may attempt to castrate themselves in the process. In little girls they may pee in the stand up position simulating a penis. This way of thinking can potentially damage the child’s social, occupational or other every day functions and in that case they will be diagnosed with this disorder. Alright, alright, alright now it’s time for you to get a harsh spoonful of my opinion.
I read the many opinions about this subject which led me to toss out my original post and write this one. How in the HELL does a 2 year old know about sex (meaning in the gender sense)?! They don’t even know the difference between a girl and a boy let alone know that they were born in the wrong body. This child was influenced by something. The parents gave up their parental rights once they said, ‘Ok baby, whatever you say. You know you are in the wrong body we agree with you.’ There will be no changing of birth certificates, social security status or writing letters to parents explaining my child is the opposite of what God made them to be. Stick to the pants and G.I. Joes and we will worry about this when you’re at least a teenager!
Speaking of God many want to remix the Bible to fit their beliefs or justify certain things. The Bible is self explanatory and although I don’t agree with some of what God expect I will not change His words to make me sleep better at night. God did not intend for women to love women or men to love/marry men. I don’t care what scripture you pull out and twist, that is not what He planned for his people. This includes the transgender people too. However me personally feel that if you are gay/lesbian you should NOT be treated differently nor do I believe you should go to Hell especially if I’m not sure if I’m going to Heaven. On top of that He did not make any mistakes so when I hear someone say they were born in the wrong body I take that as their way of sticking their middle finger to Him and saying He f****d up.
One last point I want to make, comments were made that this has been going on for years; just because something has been around forever doesn’t make it right nor does it make it wrong it just makes it present for a long ass time. Stop proclaiming that a 2 year old is capable or knows that they are not ‘normal’ and were born in the wrong body. A 2 year old is no where near mentally capable of making that decision! Blacks have been discriminated against from jump but that doesn’t mean you have the right to be racist right along with the other ignorant idiots.
It is said that over 80% of children who suffers from gender disorder will accept what they were biologically born as once becoming adults. With that high percentage would you support your 2 year old child if they confess vehemently to you that they were supposed to be the opposite sex? What would you have done? I’m dying to read your comments.
Peace and luv!
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