Archive for April 27th, 2012
Once more I side with Tyrese. It’s not because I have a low self esteem but because I’m not a bitter bitch anymore. I also have come to the conclusion that in order to bridge the gap between my black brothas and sistas there has to be some conversation (a constructive conversation not an argument) between us. Both sides have to go into it with an open mind, you don’t have to agree but just talk to each other not at. I’ve been known for my words to cut a brotha down in the past so I’m all for falling back and figuring out some of the things I am doing wrong.
Anyway sexual chocolate Tyrese ‘Jodi’ Gibson visited V-105 Radio and had a lot to say about women and men. I read this snippet of his interview at least five times before I made an opinion just to make sure I understood his statement. Now my damn opinion…..just a warning to my sistas you will not like what I’m about to say or maybe you will I don’t know. With that being said tell me what is wrong with this,
“A lot of women are very unrealistic. To have a man that’s attractive and successful you have to be in the position to hold him down mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and sexually. Some of yall have wack sex. Some of yall are so consumed in your swexy that your sex is horrible. Your swexy attracts the man, but after you attract the man you’re not able to keep him.”
Here’s my interpretation of the above statement. Ladies I hate to break it to you but your cookies or milkshake may bring all the boys to the yard but at some point the street lights will come on and those boys will run home to the ‘real’ woman. Get it? Ok let me put it in a different way. Stop thinking that your cookies is ‘the shit’. Is that all you have to offer? And then you wonder why you never get invited to Thanksgiving.
“…you have to be in the position to hold him down mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically and sexually.”
What man (and vice versa) would want anything less? How the hell do you expect a real man to come into your life if your only talent is doing leg scissors? Some of you is so brainwashed into believing that there are not enough men (especially brothas) that you have to resort to trash. Stop that. God has nothing less than what is best for you but your judgement is so clouded you can’t see the blessing he has waiting for you.
“Some of yall are so consumed in your swexy that your sex is horrible…”
‘Don’t you touch my hair while we having sex!’
‘I just got my nails done I am not about to chip them cooking YOU dinner!’
‘I have Louboutin, Chanel, Michael Kors with a Coach purse I look damn good!’
‘Hello! I have a Mercedes Benz bitch I am the shit!’
‘Baby you never get wild in bed or let me pull your hair.’
‘All of those names means nothing to me. I’m not fucking Michael Kors.’
‘You not gone cook? You got a hair appointment?! You just got your hair done a week ago!’
Not all black women are so materialistic but I know a lot who are. That to me is what ‘swexy’ means – your swag, your outward appearance. Look it’s alright to look nice and have nice things but when you are so consumed with the physical aspect that you ignore what you are supposed to be doing to make a relationship work for both of you guess what someone will take your spot (and again vice versa). Stop being TOO cute in bed and get down and nasty. Sit and spin all over his pole! Ask him what turns him on and work it out on him so good he needs a vacation to recoup from your sandy beach. You think you really doing something when in reality he would get more action out of the carpet than what you are dishing out.
You will never be able to keep a good man if you act too independent, not willing to compromise a little, not thinking of anyone but yourself, not being attentive enough and a list of other superficial bullshit you be dishing out on the regular. You are not that cute boo. Beauty fades away and a bad attitude will make that fade away even quicker. So get up off that high horse you are posted on and begin to learn about your inner self and worth and I’m not talking about dollar signs. Nobody wants a bougie bitch with no depth.
And THAT is what Tyrese meant.
Peace and luv!
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I don’t by any means condone what this prestigious judge did but I can respect him for being honest; I can’t say that for many politicians, athletes, judicial workers and many celebrities. Technology is supposed to help make our lives easier, connect us to people around the world, cure diseases, assist in educating our children and a list of other things. It definitely is not suppose to be used for sexting. More and more people of power have been getting in trouble for their little devices. Each one are quick to yell ‘no!’ before anyone can say ‘supercalafragilistandhbaladocious’. Technology is supposed to make you smarter, apparently some didn’t get the memo. They still believe they are invincible and their dirty little secrets will remain in the attic.
A Detroit judge named Wade McCree, incidentally who specializes in sexual misconduct cases, was caught sexting to one of the court bailiffs who by the way is married..oh and did I mention he is married too? Yeah I might have forgotten about that little tidbit and so did he.
The pic was of him with his shirt off, that’s it. I must say I’m not into older men but he actually doesn’t have that bad of a body. I can tell he works out regularly. Ok, let me get back on track.
The local news confronted him and he had no problem admitting he did it and he sent it to other women all nonchalant like. I wonder if his wife feels the same way? The husband of the bailiff says he will file a complaint against the judge. I wonder how he got her cell phone number anyway?
Peace and luv!
- Complaint against Shirtless Photo Judge(myfoxdetroit.com)
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