So I am sitting here wondering what is should write about next; when the topic popped into my beautiful head (ok I’m feeling myself tonight) but any way. What does “just friends” mean?
It means something completely different between the two sexes; to women it may mean just what it says we are just friends. Women may put you into the category of you are just like my girls instead of boyfriend material. I can talk to you about anything from men problems to even his women problems. To a man it could mean you are the only chick I am seeing but just friends doesn’t give you a title so if you see me with another chick you can’t get mad because we are “JUST FRIENDS”
Then what does it mean when you call someone “HOMEBOY/HOMEGIRL” I say this when I am talking about dudes that I see as my brothers. I can go to them and talk their heads off about issue after issue and they will keep it real with me, and I can say I love you like a brother you keep a sister grounded. Same for the females in my life I can call them my home girls…because I can never forget where home is, and includes my circle of best friends. Now do you think those group of terms can be used loosely????
I am a firm believer as well that men and women who have had a sexual relationship with one another; they can still be just friends with one another. They may have been better of a friend than sex partner.
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